Stop Bending: The Truth About Role Models
Why you don't Need Role Models (4 of 4)
There’s a reason why so many people age into bent spines, osteoporosis, or scoliosis. Yes, doctors give physical explanations. Calcium loss, genetics, posture and many more. Beneath the surface, there’s a spiritual cause as well: too much bending.
Not just bending your back. Bending to the will of others over your own. Bending yourself to please others. Disregard for your worthiness for any reason.
What Bending Really Means
Every time you believe someone else is “greater” than you, you bend.
Every time you idolize a star, a pastor, a guru, a billionaire you place yourself under them — you bend.
Every time you shrink yourself in awe of under another, you bend.
And what starts mentally and energetically, eventually shows up in the body. Lifetimes of bending leave imprints that manifest physically.
The Trap of Role Models
Society glorifies the idea of “role models.” Schools ask children, Who do you look up to? The media feeds us stories of “self-made” billionaires and flawless celebrities. Even spirituality is filled with leaders and teachers placed on pedestals.
But here’s the truth: you are not here to be a copy.
Your spirit came here to be original and to experience life in a way no one else ever has. To adopt someone else as your blueprint is to deny the unique role only you can play.
That’s why role models are dangerous. They trick you into bending yourself to fit a borrowed mold.
The Better Alternative: Mentors
There is a difference between a role model and a mentor.
A role model says: Be like me.
A mentor says: Here’s what worked for me, here’s how to become your own unique self. Take what you need and make it your own.
Your Ancestors hold the blueprint and they are inside of you
You don’t need role models. You need wisdom, guidance, and your ancestors will help you to clear the path to become who you are here to be.
How to Tell If You’re Bending
Ask yourself:
Do I idolize anyone
Do I speak about someone as if they are above me?
Do I feel smaller, weaker, or less capable in their presence?
If yes, you’re bending.
The cure is simple: remember your sovereignty. Never look down on anyone and never look up, either. See everyone as they are, each with their own path, each with their own purpose.
The Spiritual Cost of Bending
When you bend, you give away your energy. Parasites, seen and unseen, thrive on that posture. Whole systems are designed to keep you bowing: to gods, to governments, to billionaires, to bosses.
When you stand straight, spiritually, and physically, you break the cycle. You return energy to yourself, your ancestors, and humanity. Bending spiritually ages the body very quickly. The spine does not bend because of old age. It takes that posture when we spiritually subjugate ourselves into staying small. With this behavior we be-little our spirit and everything else responds in kind; including malformations in the spine and neck.
Conclusion
Stop idolizing. Stop bending. Stop role-modeling.
Be your own model.
If you’re not there yet, focus on what your unique purpose is, and you don’t have to know it in order to do this. It all starts with the most important purpose anyone has; and it is to know who you truly are. Knowing who you are begins with becoming one with your ancestors.
See yourself as upright. That’s the only posture that breaks parasites, dissolves egregores, collapses hierarchies and brings you into full spiritual growth and evolution.
With this, we’ve completed the series:
1. Words, Power, and Parasites
2. Egregores: Beings We Create
3. The Demonic Pantheon & Word Magic
4. Stop Bending: The Truth About Role Models
Together, they form a roadmap to seeing through fog and deception, reclaiming your energy, and standing fully in your own spiritual sovereignty and authority.